Monday, March 17, 2008

Blog01: An Indian Reception and Heuristics

Yesterday, I attended a wedding reception and discovered draft on tap on the second floor of the hall. Wasting little time, my cousins and I got wasted, feigning an early St. Pat's celebration.

During this period, we all decided to play some meaningless games. One of my cousin's suggested playing 'The Movie Game'. This played by one of the player choosing one letter in alphabet first. Then, each player names a movie which title begins with that forementioned alphabet from memory in turn. A movie can only be named once. Hence, if a player is unable to think of a new movie, he is eliminated. The person with the most movie titles beginning with that letter wins and, subsequently, chooses the next letter to play.

While playing, I found very odd that we all tended to start off by basically naming titles that we all already knew. By the time we made our third round, we all were basically desperately trying to remember unusual movie titles that no one had thought of yet.

Triggering a memory from lectures, I couldn't help but wonder about availability heuristics - the tendency to base a judgement on how easily relevant examples can be generated. Typically, we were making the same calls for similar letters:

Srijith (on the letter 'S', quickly): Star Wars!
Me & Jeevan (together): Dammit! I was thinking of that!

Not exactly very 'social'. But, I couldn't help but think about how we all think about the stereotypical scenarios based on examplars that are most readily available – how thinking of the last airplane disasters come more readily to mind than the last car crash. Probably, why everyone gets more uptight getting on airplanes than cars when we know that there are more motorway accidents than airborne ones. Hmm...

More to the point, meanwhile, at the wedding, my uncles and aunts were, as expected, summing up the bride and groom. As soon as they were announced into the hall, they began to speculate about the couple's background. The couple came walking down the hall's aisle, dressed very intriguingly.

The groom wore a white jacket with matching pants, with a bright blue shirt, which was half-way unbuttoned, revealing skin and chest hair. In my opinion, he looked like an indian version of John Travolta's character from Saturday Night Fever. He even had the gold chain visible on his chest. However, my relatives thought different:

Uncle 1: Hmm.. the groom don't know how to button his shirt?
Uncle 2: Yeah, the fella must be from some neighbourhood gang.
Aunt 1: Yeah – the bride must be some anjadi also.

The term anjadi refers to a derogative term for an indian gangster. My folks had decided (almost literally) that the groom was some kind of deliquent from the a half-button'd shirt and that wearing the shirt the way that was a sure-fire way of determining if one was from a gang. They even made the extension to that logic by including the bride - that those that goes out (and marries) a gangster is some kind of gangster as well. A bit of representative heuristics at work? It is the tendency to judge the likelihood that a target belongs to a category based on how similar the target is to typical features of the category.

The groom's an accountant. The bride's a sales executive.

Brilliant.

*an afterthought - why wouldn't I consider that an accountant and sales exec couldn't be gang leaders? heuristics, my friends - representative heuristics. haha.

5 comments:

hoi said...

hey vivian. your entry reminds me of how most people (myself included) tend to say what comes to our mind 1st and how we stick with this idea and refuse to accept something new.
hoho, i guess it's always appropriate to reconsider our automatic assumptions.

Anonymous said...

haa vivian. it reminds me of this story: a young vietnamese man, who looked like a chinese went over to US to study. he was ostracised and ridiculed for his ethnicity (that being asian was inferior; heuristic/sterotype), so he left school and made a big name for himself as a gangster. he ended up in jail and one fine day a tall, well-built african man came to his cell and he thought 'i'm getting slaughtered by this rival gang member' (heuristic/sterotype), and the man said 'I love you, Jesus loves you', gave him the Bible and left. i think the vietnamese man is now a church minister in US.
asian = inferior? african = violent? half-buttoned shirt = gangster?
man seems to be excellent judge of all peoples and things.

Anonymous said...

Yes, that happens all the time in Indian weddings especially with the older generation. I attribute it to their upbringing and what their parents taught them. But I am glad in a way the younger generation are not so narrow minded and have their own belief system.

lavender said...

Hehe!! I would suppose lotsa titles were made up!! ;D Like... there are bound to be titles in somewhere in this world that say "A memory lane"........

Wan Xin

Unknown said...

hmm, heuristics= mental shortcuts= rules of thumb: the first idea come out from the mind reflect to the question that you need to describ. haha

I have no idea about particular Indian culture, but i think whether or not there must be some similar places in universal, like wedding reciprocities of both groom and bride sides. So i guess, Representitive heuristics here. haha, hope i accurately figured this out.